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Booking Protocol

Protocol is important to Me - I expect My submissives to pay attention to the way in which I like things to be done. I've laid out My booking protocol in this post, so that it is easy for you to find and understand.

There are a few different services that I offer, and each have different requirements.
Educational Sessions:
Simply book your educational session online. In your booking form or in an email, please provide as much detail as possible regarding the specific area of kink that you are interested in learning about. If I need any further clarification, I will email you.
BDSM Sessions & Keyholding Sessions:
All potential submissives are required to fill in an application form and attend a coffee date before any BDSM sessions take place, during which I am able to vet you. This can take place online, or in person if you are in Cape Town, or if I happen to be in your area.

Please provide as much detail as possible on your application form, then book a coffee date here. Once you have successfully been through the vetting process, I will grant you permission to book BDSM sessions and/or purchase a pricing plan. No sessions or pricing plans that are booked without prior vetting will be accepted. This applies to keyholding and accountability plans and sessions as well.

Coffee Dates
Simply want to talk about kink? I offer coffee dates just for that purpose. While coffee dates serve as vetting sessions for potential submissives, they can also provide an opportunity to talk through any questions, concerns, or areas of interest that you have in regards to kink and BDSM.

I am not a licensed therapist, so will not help you to work through major psychological issues. I am simply here to lend an ear, offer My unfiltered opinion, and answer any questions that you have for Me.

Coffee dates can simply be booked through My website by filling in a booking form. Please indicate whether the coffee date is part of a submissive application process, or simply an opportunity to talk.

I hope this makes clear how to go about beginning a fruitful BDSM journey with Me.

Kindest and Cruelest regards,
Mistress Stern
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